Live as you see fit.

"........
I know it must seem like you're starting over again...but you're definitely not alone...I wish I could be there for you, but I'll certainly be thinking about you. You are one of the strongest women I know, I haven't told you this, but I think the fact that you broke off the engagement says a lot about you...I think a lot of girls would have been caught up in it all and looked past the fact that they were being treated like shit, and eventually marry into a life of disappointment. You have the world in front of you, no matter if you stay in Ny or if you move south...there are a million opportunities out there for you. I know you're not the type to stay single for long, but I hope you can find a guy who takes care of you like you deserve.

I envision seeing you in a year and seeing you truly happy and satisfied with life with none of the stress you have to deal with now...and I hope it plays out like that.

I'm not the type to hold things back, so I want you to know before I leave that you have given me great memories to live off of for the next year, and again Thank you, for just being you. "

I keep this on my fridge and read it almost everyday.....there are not many men whose words i honestly trust......but his, i do.

And turns out.....slowly....i am figuring out, he was right.